Rewriting My Own Destiny Against All Odds
Building a Career with the Team
Diamond Controller Estheer Yong(Malaysia)
Life is like a thick book, written with all the everyday frustrations and joys. My story is one filled with countless highs and lows. When I was at rock bottom, no one believed in me. There were always voices telling me to give up. But I always knew that only through determination could I change my written destiny. With the help of EASECOX, I managed to write chapters of success into my life's story.
I always envied others for not having to worry about money because their fathers would provide for them. What pained me most was that my mother did not decide to become a single mother until I was 14 years old. She said to me, “No matter how hard it's going to be, I will never abandon my child.” My mother's love was the reason I was determined to work hard for money and change my destiny.
Motivated by My Mother’s Love
During my school years, my mother was always sweating away at her noodle stand under high temperatures while she cooked and sold her noodles dishes, just so that we could make a living. Because I had to watch her working so tirelessly, I immediately started working in the beauty industry as soon as I graduated. This way I would be able to contribute financially. However, this path was not as easy as I imagined. Due to the constant stress and frequent accidents, I decided to quit my job and attempt to start my own business so that I could regain control over my life.
I was only 21 years old, and worked extremely long hours every day. Although my income doubled, the extensive work hours took a toll on my health. I often cried because of unbearable back pains. My mother would always advise me, “Don’t wear yourself out. You don't need that much money. As long as you can pay your expenses, that's enough already. Nothing matters more than your health.”
But compared to my mother's selfless dedication, I believed that my physical pain was nothing. I deeply felt that I had no other option but to push on. Moreover, I did not want to become my mother's burden.
Choices Are More Important than Hard Work
On June 6, 2012, I stumbled upon the opportunity to join EASECOX. Although I did not know this business very well, I still looked forward to succeeding because I had outstanding mentors to assist me the way family would do. They provided professional knowledge and tips whenever I needed them, which means I didn't need to spend as much time blindly finding my own way. In this big family, mentors provide not only guidance but also solid support. When became frustrated, I would imagine that my mentors had also gone through these difficult processes. I would tell myself that small frustrations would bring about small successes, and big frustrations would bring about big successes.
Mentor Yue always said, “Be the example and be empathetic.” This has always been my philosophy in recruiting partners and leading my team.
I looked to help more people improve their lives and realize their dreams through genuine care and understanding their needs. The company, mentors, and abundant team resources, on the other hand, have helped us firmly uphold our beliefs and create our own EASECOX legacies.
Working Hard to Expand My Business Horizons
In the past 11 years, my role has switched from a young girl to a wife, and then to a mother. EASECOX has always been there each step of the way during my transformation and growth, and to help me overcome challenges with wisdom, successfully recruit partners with the same goals, and become someone my mother could be proud of and my children could look up to. My husband not only gave me his full support but also often discussed with me ways to help my team grow steadily. My husband's love was the driving force that pushed me forward.
I am deeply grateful to those who were willing to give me an opportunity, people who were initially strangers but now my good friends and partners. Such strong connections and complete trust are hard to find, and I am truly thankful. The world is big, and there are plenty of opportunities. So as long as we're willing to work for it, success will come to us sooner or later. The outstanding products, systems, and beliefs of EASECOX will help us in making the impossible possible and fulfilling our dreams.